I don't say that. I'm so grateful to be here now, to have moved into a better life.
And people who fetishize trans men tend to fetishize a false, trans-negative image the subservient man with a pussy, eager to bottom for a dominant alpha-top. While our journeys are different, we both more or less found the things we needed the right words to call ourselves, the chosen families we belonged in at the same time.
My partner and I have it easy, since we both identify as queer, which to us means gender doesn't play a substantial role in who we're attracted to. I talked to some transmasculine friends while writing this piece, and several explained that many people assume trans men are only interested in women. One past playmate, in particular, taught me more about my kinks than I knew and pushed me to new levels of understanding with my body.
Some trans men don't want you to play with their vaginas, others do. Sometimes, it's really lonely. I'm not a big fan of oral sex, and could happily cut it from my repertoire without much concern. Everyone has words they prefer, and those words may change depending on the kind of sex they're having or who they're with.
A majority of my experiences with trans men have been dominant-submissive with me as the sub. I see me, a lanky pipsqueak squinting through big teeth, someone with no clue how to live in my body, no understanding of what it was feeling, and no words to describe it. In kink, trans guys are not automatic submissives. I know she had to be tough ours was a private Christian school with students, and she was out.
The memories still fill me with shame and embarrassment. Using gender-neutral pronouns, at least until someone's pronouns are confirmed, is not hard and is something you can do every day. Having sex with trans men doesn't make you sexually adventurous. Before having sex with anyone, you probably have a pre-built script about how it's going to go.
Posted by: Melkree | on October 2, 2012
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