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If you're motivated to do the harder work, that will demand therapy and some deep soul-searching. Rather, they see themselves as macho dudes who think women always need more than they can give.
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Being able to admit that or trying to understand the reasons for making such a terrible choice is a positive sign. Maybe you felt rejected or dismissed, or struggled to win their approval or recognition.
Be suspicious of your notion that you "just haven't met the right person. This can be painful and difficult but you can be assured you will transform in doing it. Use hands-on exercises that help to reverse self abandonment and inculcate self-caring actions. Even one sign warns you to be careful.
For you, Laurence, it brings out your inability to commit to someone. But a common bind for many is that they are only attracted to unavailable partners. What can we do about it? You enjoy the chase but not the catch.
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As you aim toward your higher self, you increase your capacity for mutual relationship. It also excludes those who are looking for an exclusive long-term relationship as they won't want to date you.
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