Sometimes they will tell you what they are angry about but thereafter they stay angry perhaps even angry at themselves because they veered from their usual path of keeping you in the dark as to why they are at odds with you. No matter how many times I tried to get her to open up I was always met with silence, sulking, lack of affection of any kind, eye rolling, she wouldn't even make eye contact with me, and displayed total apathy. AUTHOR 2 years ago from UK Hello witblitz1 Thank you for sharing your experiences, the steps you have taken to try to change things, your reflections and your decision to move on.
My faith in God also kept me working to keep my marriage together. I have tried to reach her every way I could, to no avail. Avoids Unpleasantness at all Cost:
How can you show her that she is loved and valued? We have 2 preteen kids, and she barely shows them any affection either, this was most heartbreaking especially when my daughter would ask me why mommy doesn't ever play with her.
You never know what will set him off. I was self medicating with pot to deal with the unhappiness in my life and finally decided to give it up.
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In almost every case I have read the passive aggressive will never change because they will never admit to being a PA and thus never deal with their PA behavior. Right then and there it finally hit me that her being passive aggressive and closed up was more important than my feelings and happiness and there was nothing I could ever do, she would never change, I now knew that it was time for me to leave.
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What could he do? They seem completely incapable of showing up authentically with their own thoughts and feelings.
For the 14 years we have been together, I have tried to give her everything she has ever wanted or needed. I am left feeling lonlier every day this goes on. My children are sick of the cycle of happy, angry, happy, angry and so am I.
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