But you have to have a plan. I wish I had made a plan to get out of the house and on my own, without jumping ino a marriage. This is important to remember when reading my suggestion at the end because, I think, the more time you can spend outside the family setting, the more rational you can be.
The choices you have made in the past are just that: Manipulative parents on the other hand, are likely to twist words to elicit an action or a response from you. Physically, she is in really good shape:
Be prepared for other tactics though. Even if you are in college, save, save, save. It's not just making videos and posting them online. It felt really good to finally be truthful and let her know that we certainly did not have a normal childhood and why would I want to try to get that back.
In short, a manipulative parent's behavior can not and should not be changed. It didn't work, I honestly found it amusing that she did it. I didn't want her to see her mom being controlled by someone else.
It honestly feels like an excuse for accepting our current place in life. You'll need to be patient, and plan things out.
I could've let it hurt me, assumed that she was disowning me or no longer wanted to try to mend the relationship. That's why I did as I was told until I turned 18 and then found a way to get away from my mom as quickly as possible.
Posted by: Groktilar | on October 2, 2012
It is my belief that we learn best through experience. They enjoy the attention that being in pain brings them, which is when they begin to put themselves in such situations so that you run to their rescue. They are in it to win it, no matter what, and thatónot the elephant in the roomówill be their main focus.
Why do I keep doing this to myself? Similar is the situation in case of a relationship with a manipulative parent. Be prepared for other tactics though.
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