I was in the fog and made the mistake of discussing all of this with Tanya. Before he knew it, he was screwing her in our family car when I was home with our three kids, wishing he was with us one Friday night. I asked if his wife ever found out.
I hope that my marriage will win out, but at this point, I am at peace with everything because it is out of my hands. He claims the secret phone was needed for confidential work problems her boss had tried to commit suicide and my H was sorting out the practice, which was actually true and he said all the flirting sexy stuff had already stopped. I truly believe it stopped there and then although I originally discovered his EA nearly a year before and thought the fright would be enough to stop it then.
He made something come alive inside me that had been missing for a very long time. The solution then is viewing inappropriate relationships in such a way that makes it okay with us. I even skipped out on a family vacation just to be at work and see her. She was married and I was married.
Best wishes to you as you attempt to rebuild your relationship with your wife. I kept telling myself I was validated to do what I was doing because my husband actually cheated. There is no doubt that if she had left the marriage and got together with him — he would soon be cheating on her.
She was all I could think about and she continued to be nice to me, smile at the sight of me and we still worked together. Should I tell my wife or just end it and leave her none the wiser?
It will never go further than coffee; on that we are both clear. I think you realize that if you continue to work with the OW, that your EA will pick right back up again. My pain and suffering would have made no difference then.
Posted by: Mikami | on October 2, 2012
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