Work to break the chain. He was encouraged to speak up when he saw wrongdoing. Not in a year, perhaps not even in a lifetime.
What we do because of feelings can be wrong or bad, but that is a choice. There are 12 stages that we go through, and sometimes it takes a long time to move from stage to stage. We may abuse drugs or alcohol, overeat, or gamble--or avoid the situation altogether and write the other person out of our lives. And I thank you as well rebuilding for posting the question in the first place.
And its even my hope and stubbornness that says it something more there. Sharing my thoughts as the betrayer.
You can survive these injuries only if they are acknowledged and accepted. We can heal, but it will have to be in our own time and on our own terms. We must work as hard as you can to go on with our lives.
Im weak and pathetic because I destroyed us and im willing to do anything. Forgive but not forget. But because you didn't physically cheat in,our 5 year relationship That I caught You hold urself accountable to the bare minimum of the past. There are 12 stages that we go through, and sometimes it takes a long time to move from stage to stage.
I get angry at myself because when all this was going on I believed every single one of your bullshit excuses and didnt hold you accountable myself. For me it set in right after I slept with the other girl.
Posted by: Faell | on October 2, 2012
Now I do want to stress that not everyone in my position Feels what I am feeling, afterall im in a position where I want to be with someone who doesnt want to be with me but at times acts like he does. Try to make an opportunity to contact the person who has betrayed you. He did the right thing and was punished for it.
Loss happens in many experiences and circumstances, and it can affect us deeply. You may start out feeling like a victim, but in time realize that you have the power to break the chain of bad behavior. Work to break the chain.
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I get fustrated and angry when you invite me to spend time with you and your family on the weekend including spending the night, we're able to laugh, kiss, hug, sex, whatever and for a brief moment we seem to be okay but then the next day your spending time with another woman, letting her Call you boyfriend even though you dont want a commitment, letting her spend the night with you just the day after sleeping with me.
What type of person did I allow myself to become for me to close myself off to you and open up to someone else when I should have had the courage to face our multitude of issues. Loss happens in many experiences and circumstances, and it can affect us deeply.